For CHRISTIAN MEN READY TO QUIT PORN FOR GOOD

End the Cycle.

Rebuild Integrity. 

A 6-week system to end the relentless war in your mind and restore trust at home.

 
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“I knew I was living a lie. Shame, fear, guilt—it owned me for 20 years. This group became a lifeline. It changed everything.” — Group Member, Integrity Cohort

Are you a man who’s
struggling with…

A pattern you can’t fully explain

Even if it's quiet today, you don't trust it won't come back under pressure.

No protocol for the moment you drift

You don't lose because you don't care—you lose because you're unprepared.

Trying to rebuild trust without a roadmap

Consistency isn't proof unless she can see what's changing.

In 6 weeks, you’ll have…

 

Clarity about your pattern

You’ll finally see what flips the switch, and where it comes from, so you stop managing symptoms and start healing the root.

A plan for the moment

You’ll have a trained protocol for the 90 seconds that decide everything, so you can interrupt the spiral in real time.

A path to rebuild trust at home

You’ll know exactly what predictable, visible actions rebuild safety over time, so trust grows from proof, not promises.

Six weeks to protect everything you've spent a lifetime building.

Your marriage. Your calling. Your kids' picture of manhood. The cost of doing nothing isn't six weeks—it's everything that matters. This is the investment that protects your legacy.

The Integrity Triangle 🔺

Partial solutions create temporary results. One weak corner collapses the whole structure. In 6 weeks, we install a full system— Roots, Protocol, and Connection — so the double life ends, and you finally live with nothing to hide, prove, or explain.

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Phase 1: Roots (Clarity)

Your relapses aren't random—they're predictable. You just don't know your pattern yet. We identify exactly what wound your brain has been medicating.

Details +
  • The Wound Finder: Diagnostic assessment of childhood imprints.
  • The Pattern Map: Tracing your exact drift sequence.
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Phase 2: Protocol (Skills)

You don't fall because you're weak. You fall because your body goes into autopilot. This pillar installs a battle-tested protocol.

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  • The 90-Second Reset: Script for the moment pressure hits.
  • The Drift Detector: Read your body's early warning system.
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Phase 3: Connection (Proof) 🤝

Isolation feeds addiction. Mission-driven connection kills it. This pillar moves you from internal change to visible proof.

Details +
  • Brotherhood Battle-Forge: Building emotional muscles for marriage.
  • The Mission Anchor: Anchor to a God-given purpose worth protecting.

Here’s What You Get When You Enroll: 

✔ 6 Counselor-Led Group Calls

No more than 10 men. We meet for 90 minutes on Zoom every week. Adam King leads focused, real-time coaching that targets the roots of your patterns—not just the symptoms. 

✔ Private Brotherhood Text Group

You’re not doing this alone anymore. Daily access to community support, wins, and accountability from men on the same path.

✔ Online Training Portal

Access to videos, audio, and written guides — available 24/7 to guide you between sessions.

BONUS : Tools for Couples Who Want to Heal Together

 

💡 BONUS #1: The Broken Trust Assessment™

$297 Value – Included Free

“You say you’re changing. She says she can’t feel it. Now what?”
 

That gap—the one between his recovery effort and her healing—is where most couples get stuck. The Relationship MRI™ is the first tool built to close it.

You take it. She takes it. This tool shows you what’s actually happening beneath the arguments: where trust is rebuilding, where trauma is still active, and where you’re seeing reality differently.

Here’s what it scans:

  • The Perspective Gap: Why your 10/10 effort still feels like a 2/10 to her
  • The Trauma Alarm: A 24-point betrayal scale that shows if her body still feels unsafe
  • The Drip Detector: If you’re trickle-truthing, this reveals the damage it’s doing
  • The Sexual Safety Index: Measures whether she’s saying yes out of freedom—or fear

Because when you finally have language for what’s happening, you stop fighting about the symptoms… and you can start healing what’s underneath.

This is the bridge between his recovery and her healing.

BONUS #2: The 9 Trust-Building Conversations (GPS Framework)

$229 Value – Included Free

What if the healing your marriage needs isn't more time... but the right conversations in the right order?

Most couples repeat the same fight for months. Same questions. Same defensiveness. Same pain. Because nobody told them there's a sequence.

Nine specific conversations that rebuild trust from the ground up: The GPS Framework.

  • G: Gather the Story - "How could you do this to me?" (the truth conversation)
  • P: Prove Change - "How do I know you won't do this again?" (the evidence conversation)
  • S: Stay Close - "Are you still there for me?" (the connection conversation)

Each conversation includes prompts, ground rules, reflection tools, and trauma-informed coaching to help you:

  • Tell the full truth without retraumatizing
  • Hear each other without spinning out
  • Create rituals and rhythms that build the new marriage

You won’t wonder what to say or how to say it. You’ll have the words, the timing, and the tools.

This isn’t theory. It’s the roadmap to connection—designed by a couple who’s lived it.

These tools are what we wish we had. They're yours, now.

Included free when you enroll. No upsells. Just breakthrough.

Total Value: $1009

 


“I could never do it alone… I left feeling more equipped with support than I had in all the years prior.”  - Ben

 

Best Savings

$397

One-Payment

 

You save 60%

100% Money Back Guarantee 

2 Bonus Gifts

Best Value

$80/week

6 Payments

 

100% Money Back Guarantee 

2 Bonus Gifts

Ready to start? We go live in:

Tuesday Group

Tuesdays at 34:30pm PT for 6 weeks. Starting April 14.

Join the Tuesday Cohort.

Wednesday Group

 Wednesdays at 121:30pm PT for 6 weeks. Starting April 15.

Join the Wednesday Cohort.

Note: To keep coaching personal, each cohort is strictly limited to 10 men.

Here’s my guarantee:

If, by the end of the first three weeks, you don’t have clear direction on what’s driving your behavior and at least one tool that actually works when you’re triggered, email me.

I’ll refund 100% of your investment.
You keep everything.

I’m that confident the first three weeks alone will change the way you see yourself, your patterns, and what to do when the moment hits.

Real Wins From Men Who Did The Work

Meet Colin 

“You’re probably feeling hesitant right now—I get it. It feels invasive to open up this hidden part of your life, like exposing a weakness that could be exploited. For me, joining Adam’s group felt like taking a plunge, fearing that being associated with this might define me.

Then I looked around at the other men there and realized these were respectable guys from all walks of life who had the same struggle.

You need specific tools to get a job done right: you can’t change a tire with your bare hands. Willpower isn’t enough, and Adam provides the strategies to break the cycle and recognize the early warning signs before temptation takes over. He balances serious, meaningful conversation with warmth and community.

If you’re tired of battling this alone, this group is the place to start real change. You’ll find honesty without judgment, tools that actually help, and a community that truly understands. Take the step. You won’t regret it.” — Colin Hutchison

This is what victory sounds

 

"I have struggled with pornography for over 13 years. One thing I have learned in that time is that I could never do it alone. From conversations with friends, attempts at finding accountability partners, and a search for knowledge about a topic of conversation that is considered taboo by many in our church circles, I continued to struggle in silence for many years. I have joined The Integrity Project twice and both times have left feeling more equipped with information, knowledge, and support than I had felt in all of my years prior. This is a battle that nearly every man will fight, and I know that this group can be the start or continuation of your healing journey. This group has allowed me to have accountability, build community, and has given me a desire to be a better man, father, and husband.” 

—Ben

 

"I knew I was living a lie. And I hated myself for it. And no matter how many times I promised myself I would never look at porn again, time and time again I would fall back into the same self-destructive beåhaviour. This was the cycle I lived in for more than 2 decades: shame, fear, and guilt. Until recently, where I finally came face to face with the realization that my addiction was harming everyone around me that I cared about - my wife, my kids, my family, and my church. I was targeted by an exploitation scam that pretty much read my “secret” online activity like a book and threatened harm to my family. This forced me to approach my wife with total honesty and after talking with her, my pastor, and my mentor, I joined Adam’s recovery group. Becoming a part of that group has been one of the singular pillars in my addiction recovery. Adam led the group with compassion, truth, sincerity, honesty, and discretion. I learned so much from him and from the other members of the group and would highly recommend his recovery group to anyone who is wanting freedom from unwanted sexual behaviour."

—Anonymous Dude 

 “I was very hesitant about joining the group because I'm an introverted person and not much of a talker, but Adam encouraged me and assured me that I would enjoy it and it would make a difference sharing with others who have the same struggles as me.

And he was right - it really helped me once we started and we all shared our experiences with each other and celebrated our daily wins together.

If you're hesitant about joining, I ENCOURAGE YOU TO DO IT - it will make a difference!”

—Chris

“I’ve been struggling with Porn addiction since I was 8 years old. I’ve tried everything from counseling to screen accountability and blockers. The greatest progress to my recovery was joining this mens group, where I was able to get the necessary tools and surround myself with a community of men who are there to support one another. The relationships I built go beyond the scheduled meeting times. This group has impacted my life and marriage in a way that I am forever grateful. I would highly recommend joining, it’s worth it!!”

—Joel

Being part of this group was one of the most helpful things I’ve done in my recovery journey. There’s something powerful about being able to be fully honest with others who understand what you’re going through. That kind of openness gave me strength and helped me grow in ways I didn’t expect — not just to stop using porn, but to actually grow out of needing it.

The friendships I made in the group have lasted far beyond the weekly meetings. We still check in, encourage each other, and walk through life together. I’m incredibly grateful for how this group helped me heal, grow, and move forward with a much stronger foundation.”

David

This program was a game changer—it truly opened my eyes. It’s not your typical “white-knuckle it,” shame-driven, accountability-heavy support group. I came in with my own expectations, and I can confidently say it was nothing like I thought it would be—in the best way possible.

I’ve made lasting friendships and discovered things about myself I didn’t even realize were there. Most importantly, I took real steps forward in my relationship with God and in my ministry. Adam is the real deal. God absolutely used him to speak into my life at a time when I was going through one of the hardest seasons I’ve ever faced.

The weekly calls were a lifeline. I looked forward to them all week, and every single time, I left encouraged, uplifted, and reminded that I wasn’t alone.

Please set aside any reservations you may have and be a part of this. It will change your life.”

—Anonymous Dude

Questions? Here’s what most people ask before they join.

Why This Exists... 

 

This didn’t start as a business idea.

Dear Young Married Couple was born out of the ashes of broken trust and pornography in our own story. I know what it’s like to look like a good man on the outside while carrying a hidden war on the inside.

We did the books. We did the counseling. We did the painful work of rebuilding. And over time, our marriage didn’t just survive, it grew. 

Once we started helping other couples, I kept seeing a pattern show up again and again: a marriage would be falling apart, and underneath it was the parasite of pornography. Secrets. Cycles. The quiet places a man goes when he’s stressed, lonely, tired, or overwhelmed.

And I got tired of watching families get rebuilt on unstable ground.

So I started working directly with men, not just to “stop,” but to heal. To understand the why beneath the behavior, to build a plan for the moment of temptation, and to become the kind of man whose integrity isn’t fragile.

These tools are hard fought and battle tested. First in my own life. Then through the men I’ve had the honor of walking with.

My passion is simple. I want you to walk in your God-given calling with a clean heart, a clear mind, and a life you don’t have to hide.

If you have questions before you join, email me at [email protected]. I’ll help you get clarity. 

Adam King, MA, CLC -- Gottman and Prepare-Enrich Certified

Six weeks. A different future.

Find the trigger that’s running you. Build your drift protocol.
Stay connected until integrity becomes normal.

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